Losing friends

I think it started when I said that i was not going to Japan with them (due to a crohn‘s flare-up, which I have struggled with for the last 3years (went from bad to worse)
I tried explaining that if i went with them , i simply did not have energy to keep up with them and i would hold them back (3 days in Paris with constant use of the metro was a disaster, and the 4 days of constant rest after was not enough to “ recover”)…